Dear Anonoymus

In response too:


<75.60.213.185- Columbus, Ohio
ISP: Sbc Internet Services.>

Wow...you're so smart. *eyeroll* Yes, that's me. No big secret...anyone with a tad bit of brains can find a persons IP address. Big Whoop. It's not like it's my name and address. All you had to do was ask I could've saved you the trouble.
Would you like my name too? Vanessa Baker...so there. I don't have a blog that's why I comment as anonymous. And yes, I'm a returning visitor. I floated over here via Bella's. (congrats on the babies. twins, how cool)

I still stand by what I said...the guy is married, you're crossing a line, even if you don't want to see it. I will apologize for allowing my feelings get the best of me and using the word skanky. I should have said keep your hands, that are not wearing his wedding ring, off. He's married.

Men and women, even those married to others, can be friends. Absolutely. It's when your behavior starts tongues wagging that there's a problem. Friends don't behave in ways that make those around them question what they're up to. You can deny and bluster all you want...but that's the truth. You can blame it on others and their dirty minds or whatever...but the fact remains that no one would say anything about you and B being friends if you guys weren't acting like more than just friends. Answer this...if B's wife was sitting next to him on that bus would you have put your head on his shoulder?? If the answer is no...then you shouldn't be doing it when she isn't around. Simple. And if you say you would I call bullshit. No married woman is going to be fine with some other chicken cozying up to her husband. Ain't happenin'.

You don't want a drama-fest...then don't give people something to talk about.

I'm sorry to hear about your Dad. Seriously. I hope everything turns out fine. I have enjoyed reading your blog...this subject just hit a nerve and I reacted poorly.



AKA Vanessa Baker from Columbus, Ohio.

There are so many things I could say to you.
So many things that are nasty, or bitchy or rude.
I choose to do nothing.
I choose to say nothing.
Because its not worth it.
You are no one to me, there for your opinion doesnt matter to me.
Thank you for your amusing comments.
Me and my awesome blogger friends enjoyed laughing at you. Not with you.

I'm glad you enjoy my blog, and that you wish my dad all the best.
But seriously.
Get a life, stay out of mine and keep your judgement to yourself.


To everyone else.
Thank you for your comments, well wishes
A big big big congrats to Bella & Her Fella Who will be expanding there beautiful family with TWINS next year.

Busy day, I must get cracking.